Life Check Yourself 451 – Do THIS to Get Him Hooked in the EARLY STAGES of Dating with Susan Gulyas
Marni welcomes Susan Gulyas to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo discusses the limiting beliefs that hold us back in our life. Susan, a longtime client of Marni’s, is a successful career woman who works as a senior manager in engineering at Boeing. For this episode, they delve into what it means to explore unhealthy patterns and to shift your energy to attract what you want.
- How to shape your beliefs
- What energy are you putting out into the world?
- Communicating with Integrity
Confront Your Limiting Beliefs [06:48]
We all have stories that we tell ourselves. But sometimes, these stories stem from negative beliefs that have been ingrained in us. Take a moment to reflect on your beliefs about yourself. Are there any limiting ones holding you back?
I believed that I was too old to get married. I believed there was nobody out there for me. And I was not picking well, I was not picking well at all.
Self-Forgiveness Isn’t Just a Buzzword [19:04]
By challenging past shame and embracing your inherent worthiness, you lay the foundation for attracting healthy and loving relationships into your life. This underscores the importance of practicing self-compassion and embracing our imperfections. By forgiving ourselves for past mistakes and embracing our unique qualities, we can cultivate a deep sense of self-love that radiates outward and attracts love from others.
Until you forgive yourself and really heal that with yourself before you even forgive others, it’s really hard to let someone truly love you.
Be in Your Feminine [41:23]
The subtle nuances of communication in conveying feminine energy are transformative. Understanding how to express kindness, softness, and receptivity in interactions with men without compromising your authenticity empowers you to create meaningful connections.
You’re not compromising who you are, you’re communicating something in a different way. That’s going to get you a different result ultimately.